TW: for rape comparison, asexual erasure, mansplaining,
So, I'm part of a group on Fetlife that posts bad conversations on Omegle and other sites. I had posted a chat where I was suprised that I had a good non-sexual conversation on the Bad Dragon interest tag (Bad Dragon being a company that makes dildos). My thoughts in italicized parentheses.
It started there:
Friend:
Oh wow, so you can have a non sexual conversation!
Me:
And yet I get all these people in the BDSM tag who insist I must be there to talk about sex!
Jerk:
@me well isn't Bdsm about sexuality to a degree? But good convo none the less :)
(This is someone else on Fetlife who has been doing BDSM for a long time. Not a newb, not an outsider)( Read more... )