This just in: BDSM can ONLY be sexual

TW: for rape comparison, asexual erasure, mansplaining,

So, I'm part of a group on Fetlife that posts bad conversations on Omegle and other sites. I had posted a chat where I was suprised that I had a good non-sexual conversation on the Bad Dragon interest tag (Bad Dragon being a company that makes dildos). My thoughts in italicized parentheses.

It started there:

Friend:
Oh wow, so you can have a non sexual conversation!

Me:
And yet I get all these people in the BDSM tag who insist I must be there to talk about sex!

Jerk:
@me well isn't Bdsm about sexuality to a degree? But good convo none the less :)  (This is someone else on Fetlife who has been doing BDSM for a long time. Not a newb, not an outsider)
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